Thread of Love v6.9

Postby **MalkinIsMyHomeboy** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:24 pm

if I dated a girl who was bi and she cheated on me with a girl, I would not care nearly as much as another guy.

funny how that works...

Postby **MrKennethTKangaroo** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:42 pm

Had to Google Tom Joad.

If you don't know who Tom Joad is, that might explain a lot of your problems.

Postby **obhave** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:46 pm

Don't understand the infatuation with serious ex's. These girls know you better than anyone and they consciously decided that they don't want to be with you. Seems like pretty good closure

I was always more hung up on girls who I only went on a couple dates with. Felt like I had more to offer than they were aware of so there was usually some frustration there.
Completely agree with you here. Any serious relationship that ended, I got over pretty quickly. Might make me seem cold, but it wasn't working so I didn't stay hung up on it. Only people I have ever really still thought about after were those that I wasn't serious with, and wondered "what if".
*shrug*

There's good and bad and people change and make mistakes

Everyone deals with breakups differently, just my way. Didn't mean to come off as super judgy.

Postby **MrKennethTKangaroo** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:52 pm

This thread is tailor made for judging

Postby **obhave** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:54 pm

hah I guess that is true.

Postby **Algernon** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:59 pm

if I dated a girl who was bi and she cheated on me with a girl, I would not care nearly as much as another guy.

funny how that works...

I've been fwb with a girl who was probably with other dudes the same weeks she saw me

I didn't care because I trusted she wasn't stupid enough to be wreckless

My point is, that when you want someone for more than a good night or a release....

Then it doesn't matter who you're sharing them with, male or female... It's not cool

Postby **dodint** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 11:06 pm

The only thing keeping me out of this thread is that the board has a narc. Probably better that way anyway.

Postby **Algernon** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 11:35 pm

Ah. I c

Postby **dodint** » Sat Apr 25, 2015 11:39 pm

My wife's Maid of Honor and best friend since college is a friend of PFiDC's. Keeps me from speaking freely.

But by all means, you folks carry on.

Postby **Orlando Penguin** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 9:00 pm

Anyway, I'm talking to a girl right now that knows rugby. Pretty sure she's the one haha

Is she a hooker?

Postby **meow** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 9:05 pm

That just means she knows how to use Google

Postby **Craig** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 9:50 pm

If anyone ever played sega soccer slam...i inagine she looks like angus.

Postby **MalkinIsMyHomeboy** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 10:06 pm

Anyway, I'm talking to a girl right now that knows rugby. Pretty sure she's the one haha
Is she a hooker?

OH SNAP

#insidecenter4lyfe

Also apparently she knows about rugby because she dated the rugby captain in high school. So I have to live up to that...

Actually its pretty nice because I told her I'm moving in two months and she's cool with that. She's also a Rangers and Pats fan so there is a downside...

Postby **obhave** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 10:12 pm

Anyway, I'm talking to a girl right now that knows rugby. Pretty sure she's the one haha
Is she a hooker?
OH SNAP

#insidecenter4lyfe

Also apparently she knows about rugby because she dated the rugby captain in high school. So I have to live up to that...

Actually its pretty nice because I told her I'm moving in two months and she's cool with that. She's also a Rangers and Pats fan so there is a downside...

That seems like an odd combination of fandom

Postby **MalkinIsMyHomeboy** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 10:14 pm

Anyway, I'm talking to a girl right now that knows rugby. Pretty sure she's the one haha
Is she a hooker?
OH SNAP

#insidecenter4lyfe

Also apparently she knows about rugby because she dated the rugby captain in high school. So I have to live up to that...

Actually its pretty nice because I told her I'm moving in two months and she's cool with that. She's also a Rangers and Pats fan so there is a downside...
That seems like an odd combination of fandom

I mean, I'm the guy who's Pens, Broncos and Red Sox. I can't judge haha

Postby **Reveutopique** » Sun Apr 26, 2015 10:15 pm

Anyway, I'm talking to a girl right now that knows rugby. Pretty sure she's the one haha
Is she a hooker?
OH SNAP

#insidecenter4lyfe

Also apparently she knows about rugby because she dated the rugby captain in high school. So I have to live up to that...

Actually its pretty nice because I told her I'm moving in two months and she's cool with that. She's also a Rangers and Pats fan so there is a downside...
That seems like an odd combination of fandom

Opposing teams can get interesting.

Postby **Algernon** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 3:23 am

Jdkdbe

Postby **Miami Vice** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 9:31 am

http://www.wsj.com/articles/can-your-re ... 1429724227

I think this is completely hilarious

“The store literally becomes a map of a relationship nightmare,” she says. Walking through the kitchens brings up touchy subjects, like who does most of the cooking. Then you get to the children’s section, which opens up another set of issues. And that’s before you’ve even tried assembling anything.

Dr. Durvasula says constructing the small Nornäs coffee table is fairly undemanding. But a massive wall unit like the Liatorp? She calls that the Divorcemaker.

Postby **Algernon** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 9:35 am

http://www.wsj.com/articles/can-your-re ... 1429724227

I think this is completely hilarious

Hahaha, omg that's great

Postby **MalkinIsMyHomeboy** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 10:06 am

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yeah, no

Postby **Miami Vice** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 11:25 am

This article has some more good quotes http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldne ... ogist.html

She said the children's department could be the happiest area of Ikea but also the most tense for couples.

"It can be the area where conversation comes up about having a child, or having another child, and if one person doesn't, that can lead to the most important conversation of the entire the relationship," she said.

"In the bedroom area it's fun to watch couples lying down because there's nothing more 'relationship-y' than a bed. They're like Goldilocks, it's too soft or too firm. Some couples do start talking about intimacy and it can bring on some dark comments like 'We don't do anything but sleep in it anyway.'

"In the kitchen area one person will pick up a pan and the other will say 'You never cook anything anyway so why would we need that?' Everything's so clean and that's also a big source of tension. You get people looking at towels and saying 'You never clean up.'"

Postby **shmenguin** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 11:33 am

i feel bad for couples who have to dance around the discussion about kids.

my wife and i laid down our long term personal goals right off the bat. if what we wanted and when we wanted it weren't so synchronized, our relationship wouldn't be as strong as it is.

Postby **count2infinity** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 11:39 am

Yeah, my wife and I are very much in line when it comes to kids, and it's not by accident. We've talked, discussed, debated, and figured out where we're heading as far as kids are concerned. We also hammered out where we're both going professionally and how it's going to work when it comes time for us to both graduate. The relationship is as strong as it is because of communication more than anything else.

Postby **dodint** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 12:56 pm

One of the pillars of our relationship from the start was our stance on kids. We both wanted something before we met and it turned out to be the same thing. It's been really great.

Postby **Viva la Ben** » Mon Apr 27, 2015 12:57 pm

Yesterday was my 12 anniversary. We dated 8 years before marriage, so it's kind of like our 20th.